PGP / SPD My story:

IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT: DAMAGE CONTROL AND SAFEGUARDING: As I continue to be publicly targeted, I want to make my position completely clear. 🎯🎯🎯 I categorically deny harassing or stalking anyone. My life is focused on my family, work, advocacy and creative projects—not pursuing people with whom I have repeatedly and abundantly made clear that I want no contact or involvement. Since May, I have stated clearly and consistently that I do not want contact, meetings, involvement or continued public references to me. I have kept the individuals concerned blocked. No harassment has taken place from my side. I am deeply distressed that these boundaries have not been respected and that the continuing situation has caused, and continues to cause, real-life harm. I have preserved the complete chronology and supporting evidence, including records showing who initiated contact, who continued it and what occurred after clear boundaries were communicated. Update — 29 July 2026: further public targ...

Remember: Growth starts with accountability. I have never been diagnosed with, or experienced, paranoia. I also experience no side effects from my prescribed medical cannabis, none, which I use exactly as directed to manage chronic pain. My treatment is well documented and monitored by the medical professionals involved in my care. Ignorant assumptions are part of the problem. When someone leads with assumptions instead of curiosity, facts rarely change their mind because they weren't interested in the facts to begin with. Yes, I'm still annoyed about yesterday. I'm human, and I'm doing my best. That's all any of us can do. Sometimes it's okay to admit you got something wrong. I know I do. I'm proud I fix myself when I'm the issue and when others don't want resolution, like I do - I step away. Accountability means caring enough to reflect, apologise when necessary, and do better.  An apology isn't just words; it includes changed behaviour.  Real...

TW! DV ⚠️ Bruises: I'm really sorry, but after a two-year battle with an ex and their obsession, I'm incredibly emotional right now because today I was successful in obtaining a six-month non-molestation order against the individual. Not only does this help protect me, but it may also help anyone who needs to report him in the future. They'll be listened to. They'll be believed. 🙏🏻 Safeguarding always matters, and today I'm proud to be a woman who was brave enough to speak up. With the support of the courts, I have upheld my boundaries, and I sincerely hope the mental torture and constant poking at old bruises finally comes to an end. Bad things happen. I've spent too long suffering. Today, I'm proud of myself. I completely broke down after the court hearing and had to ring legal back later because I was so overwhelmed by everything that had happened. But today, the system worked. Today, we succeeded. Today, protections have been put in place that will lif...

Accountability: Sarah Wingfield speaks on accountability, apologies, misunderstandings, and moving forward. 🎙️ Stitch with @New Mentalities | Motivation Accountability isn't about perfection. It's about recognising when harm has been caused, taking responsibility for our actions, and being willing to learn and grow. Misunderstandings happen, but honest communication and genuine apologies can make all the difference. Sarah Wingfield  Actor • Author • Advocate  KawaiiDollDecora.uk #Accountability #CommunityWork #Apologies #Misunderstandings #Growth #PersonalDevelopment #Motivation #Community #Kindness #Learning #SarahWingfield #MentalHealth #Advocacy #MovingForward #Respect Alt text: A video of Sarah Wingfield discussing accountability, misunderstandings, apologies, and personal growth while responding to content from New Mentalities. The video focuses on taking responsibility for actions, resolving conflict constructively, and encouraging respectful communication within commun...

The #CourtOfSocialMedia has spoken. #Judge #Jury and #Executioner ...and I'm still proud of me. ❤️✨ This isn't new to me. 🙏🏻✨ I'm neurodivergent. I've spent much of my life watching people rush to conclusions, make assumptions, and form opinions before all the facts are known. I've seen victims blamed. I've seen rumours spread faster than evidence. I've seen narratives become accepted as truth simply because they were repeated often enough. Abuse is often loud. Self-defence can get lost in the noise and judged as harshly as the behaviour it is responding to. The world isn't always fair. I blog about both my highs and my lows because I believe in transparency and authenticity. I want people facing similar hardships to know they are not alone. I've been accused of having an "agenda" more times than I can count. If supporting local people, advocating for disability rights, amplifying community voices, and speaking against abuse is an agenda,...

K•Doll spills the tea:  FACTS over noise. Always. Whoop whoop mmfwcl 🤡🔥🪓  There’s a difference between truth and narrative — and right now, I’m watching people choose narrative over evidence. I don’t engage in scams. I don’t take from people. And I certainly don’t need to lie to defend myself. Everything I’ve said, I can evidence. Documented. Timestamped. Court-ready if it ever needed to be. What I did do was remove myself from abuse, harassment, and threats — and I will never apologise for protecting my safety and my peace. I don’t know these people. I don’t involve myself with them. And I don’t allow abusive behaviour around me — online or offline. What’s actually concerning isn’t the lies — it’s the way people will enable harmful behaviour instead of holding their own accountable. That’s not community. That’s complicity. I uplift the Juggalo community — the real one — the one built on support, respect, and looking out for each other. Not this. If you choose to believe no...

Message of the Day: Don’t confuse reputation with character — they are not the same thing. Some of the most toxic people move through life with glowing reputations, carefully curated, polished, and protected. But behind that image, their character tells a very different story. They know how to charm, how to influence, how to control perception. They maintain a façade so well that people rarely question it, and those around them often stay unaware of who they truly are. Meanwhile, the people with genuine hearts — the ones who move with kindness, honesty, and good intentions — don’t always get the same treatment. They don’t play games. They don’t manipulate narratives. They don’t perform for approval. And because of that, they’re often misunderstood, misrepresented, or even painted as the problem by those who rely on control and illusion. But truth doesn’t live in appearances, just like chronic pain doesn't have a face.  Character is what you do when there’s nothing to gain, and some...

Disabled people are being failed again and again. Stop removing support from disabled constituents. Stop the hateful misinformation in the media. Stop ignoring systemic ableism. Many disabled people want to work and contribute, but accessible, fairly paid opportunities are still being denied to us. And even when disabled people do get into paid work, the UK disability pay gap was 12.7% in 2023 according to the ONS.  That is not fairness. That is discrimination built into the system. Some of us are already doing huge amounts of unpaid labour — advocacy, care, community work, creative work, emotional labour — while also managing the extra daily costs that come with disability. Those extra costs are real, and cutting support only pushes disabled people further into hardship. Around 5 million people were receiving either PIP or DLA under DWP policy ownership at February 2025, showing how many people rely on disability-related support.  Disabled people deserve dignity. We deserve a...

I don’t need closure from people who refuse accountability. I used to feel like I did and it opened up opportunities for people who pretend to be kind to be even more abusive.  I no longer allow them to harm me under the guise of 'kindness'. They know exactly who and how they are and kind isn't one of the descriptors. 🔥🔥🔥 Kawaii Doll Decora 🌸 KawaiiDollDecora.uk Alt text: Pastel kawaii-style quote image with a soft pink, lavender, and peach gradient background filled with hearts, sparkles, clouds, and a rainbow. Cute characters include a bunny, heart-shaped lock and key, a teddy bear with a plaster, and an angel girl symbolising healing and protection. Centred text states that closure is not needed from people who refuse accountability and rejects abuse disguised as kindness, ending with flame emojis to emphasise strength and boundaries. The credit “KawaiiDollDecora.uk” appears at the bottom.

I did it... I’ve formally raised safeguarding concerns about how my personal support was handled, by submitting a complaint to Sisters of Support. I’m not expecting a response — that isn’t the point. What matters is that the failures I experienced, including breaches of verbal agreements and serious safeguarding concerns, are now on record. This was done for safety and safeguarding purposes only. Vulnerable women deserve genuine, ethical, and trauma-informed support. When people seek help, they should not be harmed further in the process. Accountability matters. Learning matters. And vulnerable women deserve better — always. Sarah ❤️ #safeguardingawareness #support #womensupportingwomen #abusesurvivor #abuseawareness #abuserecovery  Alt text: A woman with dark hair is alone in a dark room, she is huddled up with her head down and wearing a white top with blue bottoms, there is writing above that states "safeguarding and support matters after abuse" it has the tag "kawaii...

A closed door: I can’t stand being used and then discarded when I’m no longer convenient. It’s bad enough when strangers do it — but when it’s family or relatives? Nah. I’m done. If you choose not to be my family, I’m not chasing you. Unfriend me. Block me. I’ve spent too long putting people first and giving endless benefit of the doubt just because we share blood or we're family. If I’m not family to you, then noted. I wish I’d realised sooner, but here we are. What really gets me is that some of you never even tried to know me. You decided who I was based on assumptions, hearsay, or what was easiest for you. I’m exhausted from being the one who tries to keep the peace while others don’t care half as much. So if relatives are unfriending me now, I’ll let them. 🫵🏻💯✨ I’m done shrinking, explaining, or performing for people who couldn’t be bothered to show up properly, it's not like they treated me well when they were around anyway! That door is closed now. I already have ever...

Putting Yourself Out There Isn’t Easy Anymore: These days, putting yourself out there—whether as an advocate, an influencer, or simply someone trying to bring people together—is far from easy. Access to people seems like an open target, and the moment you step forward with good intentions, you expose yourself to criticism, ridicule, or worse. I’ve seen too many advocates and influencers lost to suicide, depression, and bullying. My condolences go out to their families and friends, because I know firsthand how isolating and painful that journey can be. As an autistic individual living with several disabilities, I understand how simply being different—and daring to want to help others—can make you a target. Thankfully, as a survivor of abuse, I’ve developed the stomach to withstand a lot. But that doesn’t mean I’m immune. The last few experiences of mistreatment I’ve endured have still taken a toll. And the harder I try to help my community, the more I see clique-led hate campaigns worki...

I keep reading posts online about a gentleman I encountered and it appears that I am not an isolated incident. I Stand Against Bullying, Corruption, and the Silencing of Disabled Voices In my personal and lived experience, Anthony Beddard has demonstrated a severe lack of integrity and accountability. I am currently involved with the Crime Commissioner regarding how I, a disabled woman, was ostracised and mistreated by individuals in power—including Anthony Beddard—who chose to side with abusive behaviour rather than support or protect me. When I sought an apology for the unacceptable telephone manner I experienced from Paul Howarth, I was instead met with hostility, false accusations, and ultimately blacklisted from Aycliffe Radio. I was denied the lift Anthony had originally offered to support my appearance—an action that, to me, was a clear signal of bias and exclusion. Since then, I have been forced to defend myself against a false Community Protection Notice, which I have publishe...

Don’t you just love social media?! Apparently, asking someone to quote an article where they claim it mentioned fraud (which I couldn’t see, by the way) is now classed as “inviting abuse” and “being a bully.” Then, when you calmly point out their poor choice of words—and even explain you’re in chronic pain mode—they drag their disabled partner into it to compare and insult you. #Ableism, anyone? So you call that out… and suddenly they’re threatening to share a cherry-picked snippet of the comments (totally out of context, of course) to whip up a hate campaign. Meanwhile, they try bullying you on your own page, claim you messaged them and their husband (who?! I’ve not even been on her profile to see who he is!), and lie to save face—all because you held a mirror up to their abusive behaviour. Still no quote about the fraud though, is there? Just attacks. And all because I used the word rude (which accurately described the behaviour). Cue threats, gaslighting, and more projection. You’d ...