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Shining a Light on Disability: My Upcoming Talk on Disability Awareness

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Shining a Light on Disability: My Upcoming Talk on Disability Awareness For as long as I can remember, I’ve carried the weight of being unseen—of living in a world that wasn’t built for people like me. Not just physically, but socially, emotionally, and culturally. And yet, it’s precisely because of these experiences that I feel a responsibility to speak up, to share what I’ve learned, and to challenge the assumptions and barriers that too often go unquestioned. Very soon, I’ll be giving a talk on disability awareness. This isn’t just another event on the calendar for me—it’s a chance to create understanding, to shine a light on realities many people don’t see, and to give voice to those often unheard. I’ll be sharing my personal journey: the daily challenges, the moments of invisibility, and the resilience it takes to navigate a world that isn’t always accommodating. But I’ll also be highlighting hope, possibility, and the change that is within our reach when awareness meets action. D...

From Argument to Advocacy: My Journey of Healing

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From Argument to Advocacy: My Journey of Healing There was a time when I was quick to argue, always ready to defend myself against anyone who misunderstood me or dismissed my perspective. I carried so much pain, injustice, and frustration that it spilled into the way I communicated. If someone challenged me, I pushed back — hard. Looking back, I can see that this was less about the discussion itself and more about my own need to be heard, believed, and validated. But healing changes you. Today, I no longer argue for the sake of it. I state my points, calmly and clearly, and then I leave it there. Not because I don’t care, but because I’ve learned that not everyone listens to understand. Many people simply talk at others, desperate to push out their own view without really absorbing what’s being said. And that’s okay — healing takes time, and not everyone is there yet. When something doesn’t make sense, I will still challenge it — because I believe our communities deserve better. But I...

Committing to Growth:

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Committing to Growth: Level 2 Understanding Domestic Abuse I’ve just signed up for another online course! Over the next few months, I’ll be undertaking Level 2: Understanding Domestic Abuse with the Learning Curve Group, and I couldn’t be more excited. For me, every course is more than just a qualification—it’s an opportunity to deepen my understanding, enhance my skills, and grow as an advocate. Busy, busy 🐝 is an understatement! As I work through this course, I’ve been putting my own systems in place to ensure I retain and engage with the material fully. I draft my answers in Google Docs before submitting them online, carefully reviewing and refining my work. I take detailed notes alongside my answers to create a resource I can revisit and learn from long after the course is completed. This method has transformed how I study, helping me to internalise complex concepts and apply them practically in my charity and volunteer work. Every module I complete feels like another step in a j...

What is a Disability Advocate and why are you different?

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What a Disability Advocate Actually Does (and Why I’m Different) A disability advocate is someone who stands up for disabled people’s rights , access, and dignity. Advocates challenge unfair systems, support people through complex processes, and ensure their voices are heard when they are often ignored. Advocacy is about empowering individuals to access the support and services they are entitled to, and holding services, councils, and policies accountable. I have been doing this work for over two decades, informed by both professional training and lived experience. My work includes: Helping disabled people secure accessible housing and adaptations to live safely and independently. Supporting people through Personal Independence Payment (PIP) applications and appeals. Sharing knowledge about Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction (SPD), helping women manage the condition and, in some cases, avoid requiring wheelchairs. Implementing practical changes, such as securing seating at bus stops so peop...

I sparkle differently - new art drop:

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New art drop: ~* I sparkle differently, and that's my superpower *~  Kawaii Doll Decora ✨  #kawaiiaesthetic #kawaii #cute #chibi #cyute #y2k #bubblegum #kawaiifit #glitter #bubblegumbabe #popart #trippy #bright #artist #art #manga #bold  Alt text: A vibrant, kawaii-inspired digital artwork filled with rainbow colors and glittery details. The central figure is a stylized character with neon green and rainbow-shaded skin, purple hair with bangs, and striking makeup including heart and star accents. They wear a black spiked choker and a pastel necklace with a small cloud charm. The background is busy with kawaii icons like a white bunny, skulls, hearts, candy, flowers, and stickers. Bright Japanese text, emojis, and sparkles add to the chaotic, fun aesthetic. At the top, inside a pink cloud, is the quote: “I sparkle differently, and that’s my superpower.” The name Sarah appears above the quote. The bottom features the watermark “@KawaiiDollDecora.”

Diamond Dogs (2025) Review – A Quirky, Chaotic British Heist Caper With Heart:

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Diamond Dogs (2025) Review – A Quirky, Chaotic British Heist Caper With Heart A solid 7/10 stars! By Sarah Wingfield The heist movie has had many incarnations over the years—from the smooth precision of Ocean’s Eleven to the slapstick charm of The Pink Panther . But Diamond Dogs (2025), directed by Kris Smith and co-written with Joseph Betts , barrels onto the screen with a distinctly British flavour—equal parts crime caper, comedy of errors, and heartwarming ode to friendship. The story follows the legendary bromance of Paul Canterbury ( Nick Elliott ) and Rick Foster ( Andy Blithe ), whose cheeky banter and quick-fire one-liners carry the film from its slow-burn opening to its chaotic, diamond-studded finale. Their bond is instantly endearing: whether trading jabs about air fryers, stumbling through slapstick antics, or breaking into tangents mid-conversation (as we all know someone does), the duo feel refreshingly authentic. What sets Diamond Dogs apart from many low-budget heis...

Putting Yourself Out There Isn’t Easy Anymore:

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Putting Yourself Out There Isn’t Easy Anymore: These days, putting yourself out there—whether as an advocate, an influencer, or simply someone trying to bring people together—is far from easy. Access to people seems like an open target, and the moment you step forward with good intentions, you expose yourself to criticism, ridicule, or worse. I’ve seen too many advocates and influencers lost to suicide, depression, and bullying. My condolences go out to their families and friends, because I know firsthand how isolating and painful that journey can be. As an autistic individual living with several disabilities, I understand how simply being different—and daring to want to help others—can make you a target. Thankfully, as a survivor of abuse, I’ve developed the stomach to withstand a lot. But that doesn’t mean I’m immune. The last few experiences of mistreatment I’ve endured have still taken a toll. And the harder I try to help my community, the more I see clique-led hate campaigns worki...