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Really busy day but a lot of good things:

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I started the day off by signing a lease on a Motability car, my parents took me to some dealerships and I found a perfect little car for my needs. This is such a huge milestone, I am so excited I can't believe it! I just need to learn to drive now. I went for a drive out with a female friend, me being the passenger of course ahaha yet not for too much longer, and we had a really lovely day together and stopped and had a meal before we returned home. I then attended a local support group known as sisters of support and everyone was wonderful and welcoming and I feel like I could help a lot there too as well as find people who, like me, haven't really had much of a sisterhood or friends growing up. I felt like they offered a safe space for people who are, a little different like me lol, I kinda don't fit in any boxes and yet they were so wonderful and it was a pleasure to be a part of such an amazing group of unique and inspiring individuals, each and every one, in their own
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Community group management UPDATE:

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I had to update my community Facebook group's boundaries today because some people think that uncensored means you should be FORCED to tolerate abuse and I simply disagree. Asking people to own their actions and be responsible for themselves online is far too much since the online world has taught people they can be such monsters here. I updated the information to give people a choice, so if the groups not for some people then they can see that it's not for them and that's okay, they can leave instead of bringing their negativity into a group that's about actioning positive change. It's hard when you update and uphold boundaries, people get upset that they can't behave the way they did before, but that's their valid feelings about it and if the group is going to do what I need it to do I need to make sure it's abuse free from NOW. If I can't get people to behave themselves then they give us no choice but to enforce rules to make sure only those who c
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Inside the mind of a neurospicy:

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Inside the mind of a neurospicy: I used to be so hard on myself, just did not understand why I couldn't simply DO something, why I froze in place waiting for people to visit for appointments and not able to function or focus on things that needed to be done prior to the appointment. Now I understand executive dysfunction better, I understand how I can be viewed negatively and misconstrued and I remember that it's only my responsibility to clarify myself and it's not my responsibility to deal with negativity or hostility others choose to put my way instead of talking things through. People will misjudge you and instead of being sincere and clearing up the misjudgement they will use that as an opportunity or an excuse to be negative themselves. That's their choice and their actions and wrong of them but nothing whatsoever to do with you. Let them think you're the villain, most people in modern day society are incapable of looking at their own actions, holding accounta
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Love yourself ❤️

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 Life's hard People can be headaches  Negativity solves nothing  Aslong as you love yourself enough to know only your actions matter, then all will be well ❤️‍🩹  You are only responsible for you You cannot carry the perspectives or opinions or judgements of others You cannot change others You can change how you react to them and fix it when you react poorly You are the key to your own happiness. ❤️✨ Sarah x Image reads: "Love yourself so deep that anyone trying to play with you gets lost in the current."
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Managing community groups:

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Managing community groups are very hard when people choose to go out of their way to choose negativity and recruit 'pack animal' mentalities as opposed to actually resolve things. I tried to create a thread for discussions and was clear that it was NOT a post TO vent or be negative, however people were all too keen to twist that to claim I was saying they ARE behaving poorly to then USE AS AN EXCUSE to behave poorly. The online world is a circus of drama and I and other admins work tirelessly to avoid drama in our community group. I posted this notice today and I am NOT responsible for how others CHOOSE to act on any misunderstandings or how they CHOOSE to BEHAVE negatively instead of merely discussing things and resolving things. Actions speak volumes. I apologise for any misunderstandings but will never apologise for not tolerating people incapable of using their words in a more respectful manner. The group post: "Update: Well I tried to create a discussion thread so peo
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Progress and Growth:

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This last year saw my IMDb portfolio grow and expand and I'm so pleased to announce that I will be acting in two new upcoming movies, so keep an eye out for this lil' lady on screen! IMDb.me/SarahWingfield  #movies #imdb #Actress #Producer #Filmmaking #Production #Acting #Cast #SarahWingfield #KawaiiDollDecora #onscreen  @KawaiiDollDecora ♡ www.magnoliaphotography.co.uk ♡ 🩷✨🩷✨🩷✨🩷✨🩷✨🩷
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The northern lights:

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As I sing to myself, ✨ Hole - Northern star, ✨ and contemplate on why the world is the way it is as my dog goes to the toilet in my garden, I look up and see a pink hue. Is this a sign from the universe? I finally catch a glimpse of the northern lights .. Ha finally captured it! 🌌 This world confuses me it's one hellova rollercoaster! Why can't people just mind their beeswax and leave people to suffer in their little lanes without adding to the suffering? Xx  Sarah x Please don't give up on me yet! 🙏🏻🥺  I will make it through every bad patch the world throws at me. 
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