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It's a disability not a curse....

... I am starting to feel like i am the only person who has ever been disabled, as it is me, or is the world suddenly naive and arrogant towards the less abled ? Ok, so I went in to town as I had to go to a counselling appointment and the counsellor i have been given who spent the whole of today being really abrupt, forward and insensitive and kept repeating about how to get discharged and really making it sound like she hates her job, telling me a lot, that its exclusive. I am only allowed 6 sessions ever, and that this introduction one counts as one, and what do i want to get from counselling, despite me telling her serious incidents of malpractice about local hospital and other serious incidents and about my disability she still acts like doesn't have time for that as she has more to over explain about confidentiality and to repeat and to re ask lots if i really need this as if i dont some one else can replace this opportunity and despite my joint condition that can ca...

...meetings...

Well the meetings today.... I have lost a family friend she has died, i have the meeting today about our life and whether we can have the stairlift and adaptations that we need, and i had the police round yesterday about the hospital incident and they say I have to complain directly to the hospital. I have been let down and personally attacked unfairly by a seller of *product info removed* items who feels it is appropriate behaviour to slander and abuse people that state the truth (when something goes wrong) with what she sells.... what is the world coming to .... ...I am going through enough and she knows this, to personally slander and attack a 'compliment' i left on her shop is unprofessional especially when she is defined as 'customer support' for the whole shop community site and to have had the offensive remarks I have had since I first purchased from her I never knew it was her on the ebay site and she made me buy outside ebay on her personal shop site ...

Enough is enough!

Why do they make it such a stressful experience when you call G.P's? They don't take me seriously, do they really think I am crying for nothing and lazy as opposed to actually being housebound and in a serious amount of pain? I'm fed up of this treatment and I will no longer be putting up with it, I am struggling to cope with my pain without meds and I am sick of not being treat with respect or taken seriously by them, enough is enough! Even if it means I now have to write formal complaint after formal complaint and document everything , something seriously needs to be done; I am not prepared to be disabled for the rest of my life and I have the right to help and to not be made to suffer like this. I am crying as I need their help, so they should be helpful, instead of saying inappropriate opinionated remarks that there is no need for, are unjustifiable and unprovoked. Today I am proud to say that I finally cut myself off and stated that I do not have to justify my conditi...

Finally home:

You'd think things would get better from here... you would be wrong. I was in agony the same night I was discharged and my pelvis locked up when I laid flat on the bed preventing me from breastfeeding and I had to sleep on the sofa. My parents had to come out at 4:30am and help my husband lift me to the sofa. When it did this again the next day the urgent care dept out of hours suggested I phoned the ward I was on, the ward I was on did not want to know and as far as they were concerned as they stated "You have had the baby now..." and basically I am no longer their problem. So I phoned A and E and and my mam and dad came and took me and the Dr there gave me morphine but said I could breastfeed on it. Morphine made my baby vomit so I stopped it. Second time I was stuck on the sofa unable to move and scared incase I needed the toilet as I couldn't even nudge myself forward or sit up/back so I phoned urgent care at 23:00 and the lady came out at 02:00 and gave m...