PGP / SPD My story:

The End of Dead Dollz — When “Support” Turns Into Sabotage: I’m going to be clear and factual about my involvement with Dead Dollz, as there has been a shift in narrative that doesn’t reflect what actually took place. I did not become involved casually. I paid to step in and support the group at a time when the girls were experiencing abuse and the situation required stabilising. Alongside that financial investment, I contributed my time, energy, and professional experience to support, promote, and help develop the brand in a constructive way. This included behind-the-scenes work such as promotion, interviews, written content, and actively working to reduce the level of external negativity the group was receiving. My involvement was based on good faith and a clear intention to support growth and protect those within the group. However, the response I received did not reflect that. Communication became unprofessional, including voice messages delivered in a tone that was dismissive and ...

When larger pages target smaller, genuine advocates and spread false narratives, they don’t just create online drama — they trigger hate campaigns with real-world consequences. If she truly cares about disabled women being paid for their work, then why have her #flyingmonkeys been encouraged to harass me, and why has my #monetisation now been directly affected? Retrophiliac cannot credibly argue for disabled women’s financial empowerment while simultaneously contributing to actions that undermine a disabled woman’s ability to earn. Yesterday, she publicly attacked and misrepresented me. Today, I am financially penalised as a result. That is not advocacy. That is harm. Sarah Wingfield Independent Disability Advocate P.S. It’s a good job I care about people more than profit, isn’t it? #disabilityinclusion #strongertogether #disability #disabilityawareness #disabilitysupport #disabilityrights Alt text: Screenshot of a monetisation status page showing the name “Sarah Wingfield” with “Main ...

You Can Take the Page, But You Can’t Take the Voice There’s a reason I have more than one Facebook account, and it isn’t secrecy, dishonesty, or anything sinister. It’s survival. Alt text: Screenshot of a Facebook notification confirming an account has been reinstated. At the top is a green shield with a tick and the text “You’re back on Facebook. Your account is no longer suspended.” Below, a section titled “What this means” explains that Facebook reviewed the account and found it follows Community Standards on fraud and deception. The message ends with an apology for the suspension and states it was a precaution to help keep people on Facebook safe. The attacks on my advocacy haven’t stopped. If anything, they’ve become more coordinated, more calculated, and more revealing of how broken our systems are when it comes to protecting disabled people and those who speak up for them. My profiles are being falsely reported — not because I’ve breached policies, not because I’ve caused harm,...

So people like to go out their way these days to be harmful and not helpful, I've had a false report made to UC. I will never condone malicious intent. A man was abusive to me on 14 August 2025 — he misunderstood what I was saying, became hostile, and threatened me.  After correcting him he knowingly filed a false report to UC and admitted it in writing. The evidence read out to me today directly relates to the conversation where he targeted me. I genuinely don’t understand why some people can’t focus on their own lives and families instead of trying to damage someone else’s housing, income, and stability through lies.  Why try to jeopardise the wellbeing of someone who’s done nothing to them? I won’t tolerate abuse. I’ve already submitted a SAR request, even though I didn’t need to.  If this continues, I may have no choice but to seek orders against individuals who lie to the Police and DWP as a way of harassing me. Instead of being cruel, uplift and support your communi...

They Made Me Their Hobby – And I Survived Anyway I was always one of the “weird ones”, apparently. The strange girl, the alt kid, the one people didn’t quite understand but somehow couldn’t leave alone. I didn’t realise it at the time, but some people only know how to process difference by attacking it. And I was different. I didn’t shrink. I didn’t blend in. I existed — loudly, imperfectly, honestly. And that was apparently enough to make me a target. Back in the Bish Vegas days, when the goth scene had its own universe, I had hate tracks written about me. Actual songs. Imagine being a teenage girl with an alias — angelwings13 — and hearing that grown lads in the alt scene had used their “creativity” to slate you. I was shocked. My friends had to calm me down because I genuinely couldn’t believe that I was the muse for their bitterness. Of all the things they could write about, they chose a teenage girl just trying to survive. Their lyrics were vile — accusing me of STDs even though I...

 They call them “compliance officers” — the ones who investigate UC claimants. But with benefits comes no privacy, no autonomy. You can follow every rule, abide by every law, and still find yourself targeted because someone made you their hobby… someone decided to stir trouble just to watch the fallout. I am compliant. And yet here I am, facing an invasive UC interrogation anyway. Oh well. A waste of time for both of us, I suppose. People still think benefits are “easy.” They think disability support is some kind of luxury. They have no idea that the system is built on suspicion and ableism, not compassion. I hate this system. And I’ll keep calling it out — loudly. Sarah Wingfield Independent Disability Advocate #disabilityinclusion #strongertogether #disability #disabilityawareness #disabilitysupport #disabilityrights Alt text: A brightly coloured 3D avatar with long pink and purple pigtails wearing pink headphones. The avatar has bright makeup, a small nose piercing, and a lip pi...

 To whomever has reported me to UC I'm not receiving any income as of yet and can provide the evidence to prove it. I'm an unpaid independent disability advocate, unpaid independent visitor, unpaid charity and community worker and I am seeking paid employment and trying to set up a sole tradership. I don't lie. I'm transparent af. I keep things right and I help people. Maybe you should start doing the same. I can also do a SAR request and take you to court under the malicious communications act. Stop trying to sabotage the few people that do good things for the world and community and focus on fixing yourself. Sarah Wingfield ❤️  #warriorofhumanrights 

I've done nothing wrong and I keep losing my Facebook profiles and I'm being unfairly sabotaged by Facebook. I'm now suspended from recommendations for sharing a picture of my face.  It's really crazy how unfairly Facebook is treating some of us. I am a beta tester for Facebook and this is still happening to me when all I try is to help! I can't even verify with meta verification because I get this warning ⚠️ notice or error notice (see last image). Sarah x #Facebook #Meta #Metapaysupport #MetaforDevelopers #Kawaii Doll Decora