PGP / SPD My story:

 Warning ⚠️ rant! Why do some men think they can attack women they don't even know online, and worse, use them as verbal punching bags.   It's pathetic bro. No one wants your incessant bs or lashing out - go take your issues up with a therapist or some shid. Cos there's far too many of you - and they clearly don't know the legal definition of harassment.  I will not get off the internet - I rarely do as I'm told, but especially not when I'm told off by losers. Byeeee!! #facts: • Some men externalise their frustration. Instead of sitting with shame, insecurity, rejection, or lack of control in their own lives, they project it outward. • Women online are visible, human, and (to them) “safe” targets — especially women who are outspoken, confident, disabled, political, or simply existing without permission. • They mistake disagreement for provocation, boundaries for arrogance, and a woman’s presence for an invitation. • And yes — many genuinely do not understand (or...

Too many people hate online — and it’s worth remembering this: Projections are not facts. They are not informed perspectives. They are fragments of someone else’s unresolved pain, fear, or insecurity, thrown outward. We don’t exist to absorb that damage. Most of us are here to help, to contribute, to make things a little safer or kinder for someone else — and that does matter. Quietly. Consistently. Even when strangers try to drown it out with noise. Take the hate if you must — but don’t carry it. Hold a mirror up to poor behaviour without becoming it. Name harm without internalising it. And always remember this truth: It is their responsibility to fix themselves. You cannot reason with the unreasonable. You are not required to shrink, soften, or explain your humanity to be treated with respect. Boundaries are not cruelty. Walking away is not weakness. Continuing to help — despite the hate — is strength. Let them keep projecting. You keep doing the work that matters. ❤️ Sarah Wingfiel...