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I Emailed the Prime Minister to Demand Action on Systemic Ableism:

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I Emailed the Prime Minister to Demand Action on Systemic Ableism I emailed our Prime Minister because I can already see disabled people being targeted. Our community deserves to be supported—not blamed, punished or harmed further. Disabled people face entrenched barriers in employment, higher living costs and persistent discrimination, yet public debate too often treats us as the problem. This is what I sent: " Dear Prime Minister, I am writing to urge your government to take meaningful action against systemic ableism and create stronger incentives for employers to recruit, retain and promote disabled people. Disabled people continue to encounter significant barriers to employment, including inaccessible recruitment processes, discrimination, inadequate workplace adjustments and assumptions about our abilities. Even when disabled people secure paid employment, many experience lower pay and fewer opportunities for progression. Disability also brings substantial additional living c...

Biggest Myths and PIP:

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Biggest Myths and PIP: One of the biggest myths I keep seeing is that disabled people have to look disabled. Apparently, if you're not permanently in a wheelchair, visibly struggling every second of the day, or fitting someone's stereotype of disability, you're somehow not "disabled enough"—especially when PIP is mentioned. No. I live with hEDS/EDhS (as I was told), POTS, chronic pain, osteoarthritis, AuDHD and other conditions. Some days I use a walking stick. Some days I need my wheelchair or my foldable chair. Some days I grit my teeth and push through because life doesn't stop just because my body wants to. My disability doesn't magically appear the moment I pick up a mobility aid. It was there long before that. The walking stick doesn't make me disabled. The wheelchair doesn't make me disabled. PIP doesn't make me disabled either. They're simply supports that help me live with disabilities I already have. I've spent over 20 years a...

Politics:

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You don’t “do politics”… until politics does you. Until your rights are dismissed. Until your safety is compromised. Until your voice is ignored. Violence, injustice, and systemic failure don’t discriminate neatly — they exist everywhere. Turning real issues into blame games doesn’t protect anyone. It distracts from the truth. Accountability should be for everyone. Protection should be for everyone. Justice should be for everyone. I will always speak up. Not for division — but for real change. Sarah Wingfield ❤️ Actor | Author | Advocate KawaiiDollDecora.uk #SarahWingfield #Advocacy #SpeakUp #TruthOverSilence #DisabilityAdvocate #WomensRights #EndAbuse #Accountability #SocialJustice #UKAdvocate #HumanRights #VoiceForTheVoiceless #StopTheBlame #RealChange #AwarenessMatters Alt Text: A high-contrast advocacy graphic featuring a close-up of lips styled with the red and white cross of the England flag. Overlaid text discusses how people ignore politics until it affects their own rights, sa...

K•Doll spills the tea:

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K•Doll spills the tea:  FACTS over noise. Always. Whoop whoop mmfwcl 🤡🔥🪓  There’s a difference between truth and narrative — and right now, I’m watching people choose narrative over evidence. I don’t engage in scams. I don’t take from people. And I certainly don’t need to lie to defend myself. Everything I’ve said, I can evidence. Documented. Timestamped. Court-ready if it ever needed to be. What I did do was remove myself from abuse, harassment, and threats — and I will never apologise for protecting my safety and my peace. I don’t know these people. I don’t involve myself with them. And I don’t allow abusive behaviour around me — online or offline. What’s actually concerning isn’t the lies — it’s the way people will enable harmful behaviour instead of holding their own accountable. That’s not community. That’s complicity. I uplift the Juggalo community — the real one — the one built on support, respect, and looking out for each other. Not this. If you choose to believe no...

What's getting under my skin:

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What's getting under my skin: I’m getting genuinely tired of people speaking on me without taking even two minutes to fact check anything they’re saying. It’s not even about disagreement — it’s the confidence people have to be wrong while being loud about it. That’s the part that grates. I’ve built what I’ve built through consistency, through effort, through pushing myself even on days where my body doesn’t want to cooperate. Chronic pain doesn’t pause the work — it just makes it harder. And I still show up. 👊🏻✨ So when people come into my space trying to question, minimise, or discredit that without doing basic research… it’s not curiosity, it’s carelessness at best — and disrespect at worst. I already know I don’t fit neatly into this world. I’m not supposed to. I didn’t build my life to be digestible for people who don’t take the time to understand it. If I’m not for you, that’s completely fine. Not everything is for everyone, and not everyone has good taste. 💋 But what you w...

Why it's not an equal playing field:

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"What's wrong with society isn't just abusers, it's those that are indoctrinated with toxic ideals that ENABLE the abusers" What’s wrong with society isn’t just abusers — it’s the toxic ideals that enable them. I keep seeing comments aimed at girls and women saying “respect is mutual” as if we all exist on equal ground. We don’t. That argument deliberately ignores reality. In many countries, girls have no legal rights at all. They are not safe in hospitals, not safe in schools, not safe within systems meant to protect them. They are abused by teachers, doctors, police officers, relatives — the very people society tells them to trust. Disabled girls and women are often forced onto contraception, not for their autonomy or wellbeing, but because male violence is so normalised that the responsibility is placed on victims instead of perpetrators. And this isn’t rare. It’s systemic. Nine-year-old girls are being married off and dying from internal bleeding. Female genit...