What's getting under my skin:

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What's getting under my skin:



I’m getting genuinely tired of people speaking on me without taking even two minutes to fact check anything they’re saying.


It’s not even about disagreement — it’s the confidence people have to be wrong while being loud about it. That’s the part that grates.


I’ve built what I’ve built through consistency, through effort, through pushing myself even on days where my body doesn’t want to cooperate. Chronic pain doesn’t pause the work — it just makes it harder. And I still show up. 👊🏻✨


So when people come into my space trying to question, minimise, or discredit that without doing basic research… it’s not curiosity, it’s carelessness at best — and disrespect at worst.


I already know I don’t fit neatly into this world. I’m not supposed to. I didn’t build my life to be digestible for people who don’t take the time to understand it.


If I’m not for you, that’s completely fine. Not everything is for everyone, and not everyone has good taste. 💋


But what you won’t do is stand in my space, ignore the facts, and try to rewrite my reality to suit your narrative.


There’s a difference between not supporting someone and actively disrespecting them.


One is neutral. The other is a choice.


And I’m choosing — very clearly — not to entertain it.


Energy is earned. Respect is basic.


If you can’t bring either… kindly step TF out of my lane.


👊🏻✨

Sarah Wingfield ❤️ 

Independent Advocate+


#disabilityinclusion #strongertogether #disability #disabilityawareness #disabilitysupport #disabilityrights #chronicpainwarrior #independentartist #boundaries #respect


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