PGP / SPD My story:

Just a heartbroken statement from an advocate: People need to analyse situations more carefully and with due diligence. As disappointed as I am, I am absolutely not surprised. I will always defend myself, and I will always defend others when I believe they are being treated unfairly. I will also continue to speak out against abuse, harassment, and harmful behaviour whenever I encounter it. What I will not do is spend my life repeatedly proving decades of actions, advocacy, and work to people who have already decided who they think I am after a few moments, a screenshot, or a rumour. One thing people often misunderstand about me is that I do not revisit closed doors. When a decision has been made, I accept it and move forward. Ironically, that is the complete opposite of the situation I currently find myself dealing with. At times, I feel as though I am drowning beneath assumptions, accusations, and narratives that bear little resemblance to reality. I wish more people took the time to ...

Important Announcement: Some unfortunate but true #facts: I have blocked all individuals involved. I have repeatedly asked to be left alone and have taken multiple steps to disengage from all abusive situations. I have never received a police caution and I do not have a criminal record. I stand by challenging harmful behaviour within organisations and communities. If speaking up to protect others attracts criticism, that is something I am prepared to accept. Defending yourself against serious allegations, correcting misinformation, and providing evidence to support your position is not the same as targeting , harassing , or pursuing other people. Such behaviour is something I do not condone and consider entirely unnecessary . What I have experienced is repeated unwanted attention, public discussions about me after boundaries were clearly established, threats, doxxing, hostile comments, attempts to draw others into the situation, and statements that have caused me genuine con...

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