PGP / SPD My story:

Ablesplaining : They don’t start by listening. They start by correcting. Not the harm. Not the abuse. Not the behaviour that caused the reaction. You. This is what ablesplaining looks like in real life — lived, not theorised: • Being told how my disability affects me by people who don’t live in my body. • Being instructed to “calm down,” “log off,” or “take a break” instead of having harm addressed. • Having my communication scrutinised while abusive behaviour is excused or minimised. • Being spoken over when I name discrimination, as if I lack insight into my own lived reality. • Being framed as “too emotional” the moment I speak with confidence and clarity. For disabled women especially, advocacy is quickly reframed as aggression. Boundaries become “attitude.” Self-defence becomes “harassment.” Disability does not mean: – lack of awareness – lack of intelligence – lack of authority – or needing non-disabled people to explain our lives back to us I already understand my condition. I a...

 I regret nothing. I will always speak up against abuse, and I will never be an abuser. Defending yourself is not wrongdoing. Calling harm out is not harassment. #NoRegrets #TakeTheHeat Funny how some people can dish it out but can’t handle someone standing their ground. Yikes indeed. Keep challenging what needs to be challenged. It is not our fault that platforms often target those defending themselves instead of the abusive behaviour that caused the situation in the first place. If you want to stay informed, follow Exposed – Cheats & Abusers to keep up to date on local abusers and patterns of harm. Stay brave. Stay proud. Stay outspoken — especially in the face of abusers and their enablers. Period. 🎯 ~ We will not be compliant. ~ We will not stay silent. Sarah Wingfield ❤️  KawaiiDollDecora.uk Alt text: A screenshot of a platform warning screen with a purple background. White text at the top reads, “You can’t send messages for 3 days.” Below it, smaller text says, “Som...

 Warning ⚠️ rant! Why do some men think they can attack women they don't even know online, and worse, use them as verbal punching bags.   It's pathetic bro. No one wants your incessant bs or lashing out - go take your issues up with a therapist or some shid. Cos there's far too many of you - and they clearly don't know the legal definition of harassment.  I will not get off the internet - I rarely do as I'm told, but especially not when I'm told off by losers. Byeeee!! #facts: • Some men externalise their frustration. Instead of sitting with shame, insecurity, rejection, or lack of control in their own lives, they project it outward. • Women online are visible, human, and (to them) “safe” targets — especially women who are outspoken, confident, disabled, political, or simply existing without permission. • They mistake disagreement for provocation, boundaries for arrogance, and a woman’s presence for an invitation. • And yes — many genuinely do not understand (or...

Hey everyone!! I hope life’s treating you kindly 💖 I’ve just hit 6.7k followers, so I thought it was the perfect moment to re-introduce myself. I’m Sarah Wingfield — a creator, advocate, writer, community organiser, and all-round creative dork. I work across disability advocacy, mental health, safeguarding, community projects, media, film, and creative storytelling, using my voice and platforms to challenge harm, amplify unheard voices, and push for real, meaningful change. I’m outspoken, I question what needs questioning, and I don’t shy away from difficult conversations. I know that means I’m not for everyone — and that’s okay. I’m here for people who value integrity, empathy, accountability, and the power of genuine community support. Thank you to every single one of you who chooses to be here. I hope to keep growing this space with more brilliant humans so we can continue supporting one another and turning compassion into action. Your favourite dork 🖤 Sarah Wingfield SarahWingfie...

Ok, so I got my account back yesterday but now they've disabled my ability to comment - on anything.  Can't offer Advocacy support. Can't wish people happy birthday. Can't share to stories still. Can't even access my page status section. I'm still here so if you need my support or help, send a DM. 🫶🏻 Your girl still got chu!  Sarah Wingfield ❤️ #disabilityinclusion #strongertogether #disability #disabilityawareness #disabilitysupport #DisabilityRightsAreHumanRights  Alt text: A cropped screenshot of a Facebook comment interface. At the top, a verified profile named “Sarah Wingfield” has typed the comment: “Sending love and healing vibes girl” followed by two red heart emojis. Overlaid beneath it is a Facebook notification saying, “You have been temporarily blocked from performing this action.” At the bottom of the screen, an error message reads, “Something went wrong. Please try again,” with a blue “Retry” button below.

When she gets new lipstick 💄💕 And suddenly remembers: her body was never the problem. Not the lips. Not the curves. Not the piercings. Not the way she expresses herself. Adornment is not an invitation. Confidence is not consent. Loving how you look is not something you have to earn. This is for every girl who’s been told she’s “too much” for simply existing loudly, softly, brightly, or differently. You don’t owe anyone smaller versions of yourself. Wear the lipstick. Take the photo. Enjoy the moment. Your body is allowed to be seen. Your joy is allowed to be visible. You are allowed to feel cute — even on hard days. 💖 ✨ Be soft. Be bold. Be unapologetically you. ✨ Credit: KawaiiDollDecora.uk #BodyPositivity #SelfLove #KawaiiDollDecora #DisabledAndCute #NoShame #SoftButStrong #YouAreEnough Alt text: A six-panel collage on a pale pink background featuring close-up selfies focused on glossy coral-red lipstick. The images show lips at slightly different angles, some with a small lip pie...