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The Question?:

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The Question?: I came across a question today - if I lost everything I've built, everything I've sacrificed for, worked towards, what would I be looking forward to right NOW. All that's gone. *Poof* and what am I excited for? Supporting my assigned young person in care as part of my qualified DCC work, Seeing my family, son, mam and dad on Sunday - Fathers Day, with Peter. So, my roots are still firmly family focused and for that, I'm truly grateful, especially in a world that's so antagonistic and selfish and cruel. It's the people that matter. Connection. So can people please stop forgetting that, because I could lose everything right this second, enough people are maliciously targeting me to, and guess what?! I'd still be me, I'd still be loved, I'd still love and I'd be happy!! I like to be useful, but no one 'has' to be. It's a choice. It's as simple as that, I just don't want to leave the world as I found it. I also won...

Realising...

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Realising You're Disabled Isn't a One-Time Event One of the things many non-disabled people don't realise is that coming to terms with disability isn't something that happens once. It happens over and over again. Sometimes it's because a condition worsens. Sometimes it's because you discover a new limitation or barrier you hadn't encountered before. Sometimes it's remembering something you used to do without thinking that is no longer accessible to you. Other times, it's simply being reminded that the world wasn't designed with your needs in mind. Disability can involve a constant process of adjustment, adaptation, and grief. Not necessarily grief for who you are, but grief for opportunities lost, independence changed, plans altered, or a life that looks different from the one you imagined. Many disabled people continue to push forward because we have no choice but to. We learn, adapt, advocate, and find new ways to navigate a world that often cr...

Quick Vlog Update 18 June 2026:

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🎥 Quick Vlog Update 18 June 2026: My main Meta Verified Facebook profile is still locked, but I've now spoken to Meta support and have been told my video verification was successful. I'm waiting for the next stage of the process and hope to have access restored soon. I've also seen some criticism regarding my groups and admin decisions. Moderation and safeguarding are not censorship. Admins have a responsibility to protect communities from harassment, abuse, false allegations, and disruptive behaviour, even when those decisions aren't popular. While social media often only shows part of a story, many situations involve evidence and context that aren't visible publicly. Despite the challenges, my focus remains the same: advocacy, disability awareness, community support, creativity, and helping others. Thank you to everyone who has continued to support me while I navigate this latest tech nightmare. ❤️ Sarah Wingfield Actor • Author • Advocate KawaiiDollDecora.uk #Ad...

Living With Dynamic Disabilities: The Reality Behind the Good Days:

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Living With Dynamic Disabilities: The Reality Behind the Good Days: One of the most frustrating things about living with a dynamic disability is that people often judge your entire life based on a single moment they happen to witness. If they see you smiling, attending an event, advocating, creating content, going shopping, walking a short distance, or enjoying yourself, they assume you're fine. What they don't see is what happened before that moment, or what happens afterwards. They don't see the chronic pain that keeps you awake at night. They don't see the fatigue that can leave you needing days to recover from a few hours of activity. They don't see the dizziness, brain fog, sensory overwhelm, anxiety, mobility struggles, joint instability, or the countless calculations disabled people make every day just to participate in society. As someone living with multiple disabilities and chronic health conditions, my abilities are not the same every day. Sometimes they...

Bruises:

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TW! DV ⚠️ Bruises: I'm really sorry, but after a two-year battle with an ex and their obsession, I'm incredibly emotional right now because today I was successful in obtaining a six-month non-molestation order against the individual. Not only does this help protect me, but it may also help anyone who needs to report him in the future. They'll be listened to. They'll be believed. 🙏🏻 Safeguarding always matters, and today I'm proud to be a woman who was brave enough to speak up. With the support of the courts, I have upheld my boundaries, and I sincerely hope the mental torture and constant poking at old bruises finally comes to an end. Bad things happen. I've spent too long suffering. Today, I'm proud of myself. I completely broke down after the court hearing and had to ring legal back later because I was so overwhelmed by everything that had happened. But today, the system worked. Today, we succeeded. Today, protections have been put in place that will lif...

Accountability:

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Accountability: Sarah Wingfield speaks on accountability, apologies, misunderstandings, and moving forward. 🎙️ Stitch with @New Mentalities | Motivation Accountability isn't about perfection. It's about recognising when harm has been caused, taking responsibility for our actions, and being willing to learn and grow. Misunderstandings happen, but honest communication and genuine apologies can make all the difference. Sarah Wingfield  Actor • Author • Advocate  KawaiiDollDecora.uk #Accountability #CommunityWork #Apologies #Misunderstandings #Growth #PersonalDevelopment #Motivation #Community #Kindness #Learning #SarahWingfield #MentalHealth #Advocacy #MovingForward #Respect Alt text: A video of Sarah Wingfield discussing accountability, misunderstandings, apologies, and personal growth while responding to content from New Mentalities. The video focuses on taking responsibility for actions, resolving conflict constructively, and encouraging respectful communication within commun...

Organise and PIP:

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Organise and PIP: I've just voted for Organise to continue its fight to protect PIP and challenge politicians who continue to misunderstand what it actually does. PIP is not an out-of-work benefit. It helps disabled people stay independent, access support, remain in employment, volunteer within their communities, attend appointments, manage daily living, and make choices about what works for them. For many of us, PIP is the difference between isolation and participation. It provides the flexibility to meet individual needs because disability is not one-size-fits-all. Putting pressure on politicians at a national level is no small task, but collective action works. Last year, disabled people, carers, allies and campaigners helped force the Government to rethink immediate plans to cut PIP and ensured a consultation was launched. More than 100,000 people in the Organise community are continuing to mobilise to protect PIP and other vital lifelines. Every voice matters. Disabled people ...