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Keeping moving:

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Everyday offers something different, haters are exhausting so I take social media breaks these days. Seems everyone has something to say about everything without actually having any knowledge on the things they talk about. When did the world get like this...? I keep moving regardless, finding my light, finding my spirit tribe and hustling like mad to survive in a world with too many obstacles. Too many loopholes that we fall between the cracks of. Some of us can't do what others do so we make do. I'm hated for the right reasons, for standing my ground, for never losing sight of my morals, for pointing out hypocrisy, for stating facts and the truth, for speaking up for myself and others and for fighting for fairness for all and actioning positive change. I can live with that. If I'm not for someone, that's cool. What's not cool is when people are incapable of staying in their own lanes, have to take sides, never remain impartial, never acknowledge the harm they cause...

Oh yea, I remember that:

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That time I got bullied by a north east friendship group for calling them out on running it biased and not following their own rules... I got called a b!tch too.. and yea I can be but atleast my actions align with my words and I don't manipulate or BS lmao 🤣  Still laugh about this. Should have changed their name to "friendship (if WE say so) group" lmao. 🤣🤣😎🪓😵 Funny how so many people run groups/charities/organisations etc on their ego and not on fairness. Society can suck bxlls and not in a good way. 😝 Still funny AF. Still ruffling feathers by calling out BS in 2025, still proud AF of myself, my morals and my loyalty to honesty! 🙌🏻💯🤣 Sarah x

It's time to BOYCOTT THE RAGEBAIT:

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  Just boycotted and blocked The Sun newspaper over a ragebait article filled with false information that was used to instigate violence and abuse to those most vulnerable in our society. It claimed a woman got over 2k UC and complained about Disney and Take aways, it's the most vile and deliberately disgustingly inaccurate propaganda I've come across to brainwash the masses to attack and abuse the most vulnerable in our society and enough is enough. The more of us that follow pages like that and allow them to act in such ridiculous ways the more they will and the more loss of life and abuse will occur. Reading the comments I was gobsmacked by the amount hating on welfare without having the foggiest clue how hard it is to even attempt to try and use a food bank. They assume they just 'give food away' instead of the loopholes and dictatorial interrogations that actually occur to be able to even attempt access for one, and that's if it's ran by kind individuals an...

Change the world:

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TW: DV /Abuse ⚠️  Been on the waiting list for counselling and help since August, and just filled in a survey to help them with group therapy plans. They wonder why victims of sexual assault and worse don't always make it. The waiting lists for support are too long, the crisis teams can't assist and meanwhile victims are left to navigate the world abandoned from actual coping method awareness they could find useful. More needs to be offered and done for victims of abuse and sexual violence. The world is filled with people judging and victim blaming too, until it happens to THEM. The world's backwards. It's getting worse. I didn't do my police interview either because he's just too dangerous and I can't risk it and need to safeguard myself. I hope I never ever encounter my ex partner ever again. To those that hate and shame us, you need a reality check and a slxp, actions have consequences; or atleast they used to. These days offenders get away with it and co...

Interviews and Accessibility:

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Interviews and Accessibility: I attended an interview recently for an important job role co-ordinating disabled students with certificates. A few things happened during the interview that concerned me in regards to lack of awareness of accessibility, I don't want to email them directly as I don't want to get their backs up so I'm going to blog about it instead. When interviewing someone with invisible illnesses there are a few things you can do. Asking to carry anything is a good start, but it's not enough. When walking to the interview room I was stopped in the hallway and made to stand a little while, I have a dislocated pelvis and even though life is unpredictable, this was to me, definable as inconsiderate. The lady hiring talked to a gentleman about tea bags and that was more important than leading me to the interview room and have me sitting comfortably. Sitting comfortably, this again was an issue, they had me sat in a computer chair and didn't give me a choi...

Mood: angry at the world's hypocrisy:

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I have an OF. I don't sleep with men or women so don't meet the definition of prostitute (sexual activity in the dictionary definition is the act itself of sex with another, not images or videos) but those that do are still definable as hustlers. I don't gaf what others need to call me because they don't understand the work. I laugh at the hypocrisy of their attitude to SW when they are hypocritical and overlook their own flaws, beating up partners, abusive tendencies, coke heads, drug issues, but yea call me a prozzie if it makes ya feel better. Innit lmao.  If I was able to get a job outside of my disability in the last three years I could have packed OF in but I can't so I'm embracing that work and I 'get off' on my work. Lmao. Can you say the same? 😆🙌🏻😂💀🔥😘 🤔✨😙 I'm done trying to fit in the boxes of society or gain approval from people who I don't even morally approve of the actions they do, in the first place.  They're very dicta...

Gratitude:

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Some of us have to fight for every little thing, some of us keep trying even when the world makes it even harder to survive, some of us rely on food banks and support, some of us are prevented from getting actual jobs in society, some of us have to do whatever it takes to make it month to month. Without the additional support some of us would not be here, so here's a shout out to every individual whose actually took the time to help a homie out when they've been in need. The world needs more people like you. Sarah. ❤️🌹 Xx