PGP / SPD My story:

Hi everyone! I’m seeking a new role and would appreciate your support. If you hear of any opportunities or just want to catch up, please send me a message or comment below. I’d love to reconnect. #OpenToWork About me & what I’m looking for: 💼 I’m looking for Administrative Aide, Assistant, Sales Associate, Sales Advocate, Analyst roles, charity positions, data inputting and more. Hybrid, remote or near my home. 🌎 I’m open to roles in Newton Aycliffe and surrounding areas. Paid work only, I have vast experience and a lot of academics. I'm driven and passionate and looking for something to support myself and be more independent. Thank you. Sarah Wingfield 🌹

  Dear me, I hope on your bad days, you remember that there will be more good, when you feel defeated, remember that you've overcome worse. Some may harm, sabotage and leave chaos in their wake, but not you, never you and that's something you can hold onto, be proud of. At the end of the survival, sacrifices, life trials, I hope you see the light in you is still lit, I hope you remember all you stand for and that you'll never quit, regardless of what others think and say and do and harm, you will rise like a Phoenix from the ashes, every single time. I know it's hard, I know it hurts like hell daily, I know you'll never know what it feels like to be pain-free, but take a step back and look at all you're achieving and are yet to achieve. Many have tried to break you and you grieve but you picked up the pieces and re-arranged them, better than before. You're low again, you're only human, you're suffering again, but remember it won't last forever, t...

 Be careful with https://www.excelagainsttheodds.co.uk/ they just FRAUDULENTLY took £30 from my bank and I had to report it to my bank. I gave a one off payment last year or the year before and found them unhelpful so dropped them. I never signed up to any subscriptions or anything and I am absolutely maddened that they've invoiced me and taken £30 without my consent or knowledge. I have emailed them and told them I've reported the fraud and they're to lose all my information or I'm taking legal action. I can't stand it when disabled people are taken advantage of and I've heard nothing from them for many months so just how dare they. Be careful when spending money for support as a disabled individual, the world is not kind to us. Sarah Wingfield  Independent Disability Advocate.

  This is one of the reasons I work together collecting other creatives because people in the creative fields are always sabotaged and hit hard by algorithm malfunctions, to the point accounts are lost. I'm on my second TikTok account and two of my song videos have already been unfairly muted by TikTok, meanwhile Instagram false flags posts to stop the profile from monetising. It's incredibly difficult for creatives to create revenue streams when faced with such hostilities from algorithms. Censorship has gone mad and we just have to sit back and be puppeteered. I'm being unfairly sabotaged by Instagram: #sabotagedbyinstagram 👀👀👀 Kdoll_artist IG ..and there is nothing anyone of us can do about it. I will always work together with other creatives and build others up, unless they do something where I have to withdraw my support, because we are all in this together, and this is OUR fight to make things right and promote one another! Sarah Wingfield.

  The more I speak to people and the more I try and gain help myself, the more I learn that we don't have healthcare access like we should, anymore. People can't make appointments to be x-rayed like they used to and wait lists are years long with a lot of gatekeeping when people attempt access to services. If the dentist crisis wasn't enough, people are having to resort to YouTube videos and to do things themselves instead. It's absolutely heartbreaking when people are being treated less than they deserve, when access is reduced and it's the same for those with disabilities, I walk on a dislocated pelvis, surgery denied and gatekept and still waiting to hear about the rheumatology department I was supposed to be referred to. People are forced to get on with it until things escalate and become life threatening they are told they don't matter. Long waiting times, ten hours plus, in accident emergency and I don't understand why or when things started to shift s...

it is what it is. hard work. sacrifice. new car looks like it's been keyed along the side. some people will only ever harm and sabotage. choose to never be like them. #sabotage #propertydamage #dontquit #newcarkeyed #trusttheprocess #scum #itiswhatitis #fyp #fypシ゚  ---- I have had to have police involvement due to abusive men this year and last year, an abusive ex partner and an abusive ex friend turned obsessor, and today I was told my car has been scratched.  No woman is safe lately and police do not protect us and can't protect us. They claim to believe us but then go on leave for months at a time, refuse to read the statements and reports often getting things wrong and leaving it far too long to get recorded statements and evidence. They let evidence get recorded over and we as victims don't matter. I feel like those who break the law have more support, more legal advice, more protection than any victims do and when victims retaliate they're penalised beyond a joke....

The Importance of Boundaries in Life: Boundaries are essential for maintaining healthy relationships, personal well-being, and self-respect. They define the limits of what we are comfortable with and help us establish clear expectations with others. Without them, misunderstandings, stress, and resentment can easily arise. Emotional Boundaries Emotional boundaries protect our mental health by ensuring we do not take on the burdens of others at the expense of our own well-being. They allow us to offer support while maintaining our own sense of self. For example, it is important to recognise when someone’s problems are theirs to solve rather than feeling obligated to fix everything for them. Physical and Personal Space Respecting physical boundaries is just as important as emotional ones. Everyone has different comfort levels regarding personal space and physical contact. Understanding and honouring these preferences fosters mutual respect and prevents discomfort or anxiety in social inte...

And today I'm narcissistic AND a nut job for CORRECTLY defining the term 'whine' and holding a mirror up to an online bully. Getting bored now of the bullies that are dullards, at least get creative with the insults please, it's pathetic when men can't even add some humourous flairs to their MANtrums.  Just saying. And ALL OF THIS STUPIDITY because I pointed out the post was important for accessibility purposes and answered their questions which I now see they were trolling and seeking a verbal punching bag, wrong target good sir! I've had worse than you mate! Lol Wish relatives collected lost abusive men when they get loose on the Internet. Why do they need to spit their dummy out though? Why do they need to backpedal and pretend they were kind when they were scummy? Why can't they see the facts and why is it always EVERYONE else whose the problem when they can't get away with being a bully online? This man lives on my town, and he thinks that accessibi...

The power of NO: I'm so pleased I'm no longer around hot and cold people, mixed signals, lies, cheats or just icky souls. It destroys you from the inside outwards and you don't even realise just how much until you're free from the manipulative hold they have over you, constantly striving to prove your worth over and over again, letting your walls down, letting them in, they built you up to smash it all down, they were never sincere. Fake love and loyalty posts across social media as they played you, told people they were single, cheated on you, behind closed doors chose to harm you. Police being called, break ups, back together, one more chance, they can't lose you, and you let them back in to sink what was left of your ship. You felt like an idiot. I've tried so many times to get others to see my worth, chased them when they hurt me, apologised when they harmed me, tried to fix situations I didn't break and it broke me. I picked up the pieces and kept putti...

A Journey of Strength and Self-Belief. For as long as I can remember, I’ve been fighting a battle no one else can see. Living with chronic pain and invisible disabilities has meant constantly explaining, justifying, and pushing through—while the world often fails to understand. It’s exhausting, but I refuse to let it define me. Singing and rapping has always been my escape. When I sing and rap, I feel free, as if, for a moment, the weight of my struggles lifts, and I can just be. But for a long time, self-doubt whispered in my ear, telling me I wasn’t good enough, that my voice didn’t matter, that my pain made me weak. Years of being overlooked, dismissed, and told to “just push through” had taken a toll on my confidence. Now, I’m on a journey—not just to improve my singing, but to rebuild me. Learning to Believe in Myself. I used to think confidence was something you either had or didn’t have. But I’m learning it’s like a muscle—it grows the more you use it. Every note I sing, every l...

I am currently busy working on music collaborations today.  Stepping up my game.  Improving, growing, evolving. 🎵 Never quitting so Ms. Stock from Parkside who left me traumatised as a child and then jeapordised my GCSE music as my teacher there mentioned her before my performance and I froze and couldn't sing a single note, can kiss my butt.  I went into graphics design instead but I will face my trauma she caused by PUBLICLY humiliating an 11 yr old child and having the whole class laughing throughout the whole performance, and I will overcome and I will improve and I will work hard towards fixing the harm she did. I got this. 💯🎵 Sarah/ K•Doll