This doesn't feel like home anymore:
You matter too even when others make sure you feel like you don't.
sisters of support: unsafe spaces for me. I can't in good conscience trust people who don't see my worth and won't let me ask for others accountability.
@KawaiiDollDecora ♡
www.magnoliaphotography.co.uk ♡
update: no one from the group has got back to me, the director and founder invalidated a negative experience my son and I endured publicly and all I wanted was an apology from the man who had ignored my complaint for six months.
I had been supporting this group, helped get them more followers, shared loads, invested time and energy and supported them with raffles etc, gave them pre-approval on Aycliffe Uncensored but now I have to step back.
You can't make others care and you can't in good conscience continue to support somewhere that was created by someone who invalidates you.
I did recommend these but I wasn't added to the WhatsApp support group after the two sessions, no one has got back to me since the invalidation even though I reached out to Tina and I no longer feel this group will be a safe space when the director Kirsty Amy Turner has made it perfectly clear I don't matter.
as joy + soul said:
"The thing we don't understand is just how our Light changes things
We walk into a room and expose the shadows
They're compelled to elevate up to a higher level of consciousness
So even if it's not our intention sometimes our very presence TRIGGERS other people
To confront the parts of themselves that they may not want to
Now this can manifest itself in a number of ways but often it comes out to where others Attack us
Instead of taking the opportunity to grow within themselves But that's OK
Keep shining your light for those who need their path illuminated
And that appreciate the opportunity to level up
Give no energy to your haters No energy"
I walk away from unsafe spaces and negative energy and actions that don't align with words and from people and places that make you feel like *YOU DON'T MATTER* now.
unfortunately this is one of those moments because I may be a Newtonian and I used to love my town but this is no longer home to me and the cliques have made that clear by not holding people to account when they're harmful to others.
Sarah Wingfield Author.
My original review: (now tainted)
Just want to say I think it's amazing what you ladies have created and achieved and I'd like to say from me personally none of you made me feel like it was my first time meeting you all, you were all so amazing and welcoming and it felt like I'd always been a part of the group, I really appreciate the sisterhood you've created there, it is not only beneficial but it was a pleasure to see how it personally helped every individual there.
That's the most important thing so you need to know how amazing you all are for creating that!
So from me, thank you. ❤️
Highly Recommend and hope to be a proud sister for a long time yet.
Sarah x
~Always destroyed~ not sometimes. Always:
