I prefer honesty but ...
The problem is that people don't like honesty, they don't want things being pointed out to them, they want to stay in their bubble of what they think the world is like and anything and anyone that challenges that is worthy of attack, abuse or worse, in their eyes.
I don't point out the patterns I see or the things I notice for fun, they're just observations, and if I feel they're damaging overall or adding to a stigma, I feel like I have every right to point them out.
I never asked anyone to argue the toss with me, I never asked anyone to twist what I said to fit their own skewed narratives, but yet people will and do.
People won't understand and it's not my job to try and get them to.
All I can do is point out the issues I see and then whatever they take from that is theirs and theirs alone.
Yet it's easier to drag someone through the mud than it is to see that they're correct with their observations.
Just life, but if you want to change the world for the better, break down stigma, and point out facts then you kind of have to point them out ahaha.
Don't shoot the messenger! ππ©·
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Kawaii Doll Decora π©·✨