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Some people don't realise that home can be a person, they are always chasing greener grass and flexing their ego, they never realise when they have an authentic lass and they waste their time and energy being fake and abusive ... Do they ever think about how they self sabotage? How they could have had everything in life, including real love, or does that scare them so much they have to leave a trail of broken people behind, they have to lash out at every possibility... Do they think of what they've done? Do they reflect? Do they miss the authentic ones they throw away? Do they have a conscience? Does harm and sadism really benefit them? Trauma is never necessary and yet there's so much of it, people cause and leave behind too much of it.
When will people start self reflection instead of negative visual affiliations to create negative narratives about others so they can feel better about their own flaws and lives... Why can't they figure out that if they stopped busying their minds with how others are and the fake assumptions they make about others, and started focusing on themselves, they wouldn't ever need to cause harm or leave broken people behind, because they'd be too busy fixing their own flaws and mistakes to waste time twisting and manipulating narratives to hate on others and distract from their own pain.
We're all in pain, wake up.
What we do with that though makes all the difference, some of you inflict pain onto others, lash out and justify it, leave hurt and pain behind and think that it was justified, its never justified; when others seek out to uplift others and leave the world a better place even if they fail, they keep trying.
There is alternative ways to deal with pain, you can become exactly like the people you hate and who are abusive and hurt others in different ways, or you can make an actual choice to do your best never to become exactly like those you hate and try and make the world better and show people that there are better ways to deal and handle things.
Ways that will make you feel proud for life, not superior for five minutes.
But how do you communicate this and convince the masses when hurting others has become all they know ...
How indeed.
Sarah Wingfield Author 🌹
