Seeking Compassion - Humour helps:

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Seeking Compassion - Humour helps:

One of my strongest memories from Ayclive

is also one of the hardest.


I was shaking, in pain, and sat on the floor at the entrance — overwhelmed, ignored, and treated with hostility. In the middle of all that, someone asked me for my ticket QR code.


I said, “I’ll see if I can find that for you… and while I’m at it, maybe I’ll try and find some compassion too — it seems to be in short supply.”


One of the few kind staff nearby chuckled, and so did I.


I was having a PTSD flashback, completely caught up in a wave of panic and helplessness — but that moment of humour, my own defiance in the face of it all, snapped me out of it.


Even as I relived the trauma, the memory of that small spark made me giggle again.

And reminded me: humour is a valid coping strategy.


Whoever said it isn’t clearly hasn’t needed it like we have.


— Sarah

Independent Disability Advocate


#Disability #DisabilityInclusion #PTSDRecovery #DisabledAndProud #StrongerTogether #ChronicIllness #NeurodivergentVoices #DisabilityRights


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A pastel pink 3D illustration of a smartphone with a soft pink background. On the phone screen, bold text reads “SEEKING COMPASSION” above a pink wheelchair accessibility icon surrounded by small hearts and dots. Beneath it is the hashtag #accessibility and the phrase “Support is the bare minimum.” The image includes white stylised branding that says “@KawaiiDollDecora” on the side and in a heart shape. The overall aesthetic is soft, cute, and disability-positive.





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