PGP / SPD My story:

  I had to block an abusive man who misunderstood my autistic meltdowns—during times when I was actually being abused—as aggression. He believes I deserve abuse. That says more about him than it ever will about me. I honestly feel sorry for anyone who thinks abuse is ever justified—especially towards a disabled, autistic woman. Brave of him, hiding behind fake profiles. No one deserves abuse. Ever. Period. This man has made false public claims, twisted what he thinks he saw to match how he feels about me—rather than acknowledging the truth of who I am or what actually happened. That is not only irresponsible, it’s harmful. By doing this, he is actively supporting abusers. It’s not my fault he was gullible enough to buy into lies and projections. If you’re mutuals with this person, please consider unfriending them—or me. I have the right to protect myself from those who twist reality to justify bullying and abuse. If you're okay with that kind of behaviour, we are not aligned. Bully...

Where others tolerate dysfunction, we look for solutions: I've just been made an example of by policies meant to protect instead of harm. Hate campaigns against me have influenced decisions to silence me as a disability advocate and an independent one at that (not affiliated with any organisation) which means that their social media policies don't even legally reach me to be used against me to silence me. What's been sabotaged? A podcast about employment and disability. We speak up and out about our experiences because our experiences matter - but when policies and protocols are misused to silence the important work people like myself do to use our voice to help other disabled individuals and are misused without genuine appeal processes or policies being specified or shared - it does more harm than good and tells us that some disabled voices matter more than most, which is unacceptable. And to think this behaviour has been endorsed by a county council to further ostracise a...

Someone asked me how you can go on when you're fighting a never ending battle: I can try and answer it - I take each day as it comes. Break down my struggles and tackle them to the best of my ability myself. You keep going - especially when you want to quit - more so then than ever, rest and hit pause and then back at it. I sorted out my pain management - hospitals never helped so I did it myself. Found something that works for me from a private clinic. This opened doors for me - helped me study and achieve more. You don't stop and you pick yourself back up whenever you're at rock bottom.  Everyone who's abused me - would love for me to quit, from the social workers that told me to unalive myself because disabled people should not be allowed to be parents when my son had cancer to those who are misusing policies to silence me as a disability advocate. The obstacles are always there - but how we respond to them is what truly matters - some battles we win and we break thr...

  All disabled voices matter. – KawaiiDollDecora Not everyone welcomes my advocacy — not just for others, but for myself as a disabled person. I've become the target of hate crimes, and sadly, some individuals are manipulating policies to pressure organisations and companies into silencing me. It's vital that people from all backgrounds, especially those of us living with disabilities, are allowed to speak openly about our lived experiences. When one disabled voice is silenced through malice or misuse of power, it sends a dangerous message: that some disabled voices matter less than others. I will not sit back and let that happen. I will continue to work with individuals and organisations that refuse to allow their policies to be weaponised — those who protect, not persecute, disabled voices. I cannot control others’ behaviour, but I can rise above their hatred and move forward with those who see the truth, who stand beside me, and who won't allow bullies to dictate whose v...

The Power of Progress: When Advocacy Threatens the Comfortable By Sarah Wingfield My light, bravery, and power intimidate some people. That’s not ego — it’s reality. For some, my strength is something to challenge, dilute, or extinguish altogether. But let’s be clear: when someone’s contribution to progress makes others uncomfortable, that discomfort often says more about the status quo than the person pushing for change. It’s always fascinating to me how those who supposedly care about “justice,” “diversity,” or “equality” crumble when that very justice demands their accountability or reflection. Instead of self-inquiry, they mobilise — weaponising policies, processes, and sometimes even the law itself — to target and isolate the one demanding progress. If I had no power, there would be no effort to sabotage me. No whisper campaigns. No false reports. No twisting of narratives or deliberate misuse of mechanisms designed to protect — like safeguarding procedures, anti-harassment polici...

Due to a recent breach in the malicious communications act to Durham County Council which has lead to a specific community and disability advocating opportunity being allowed to be sabotaged - all content was protected prior to this declaration due to my tagged alias appearing on all content: I have now added a legal disclaimer to my pages: Public Legal Notice (UK Jurisdiction) As I remain the subject of ongoing ostracism and hate-related behaviour in my hometown, I am issuing this public legal notice to assert my rights under UK law. All content shared, posted, or created by me on this platform is produced in a personal capacity and reflects my own views only. It does not represent the views or positions of any company, employer, organisation, or affiliate with which I may be associated. Any unauthorised reproduction, distribution, screenshotting, or use of my content—whether in whole or in part—for the purpose of harassment, defamation, misrepresentation, or to cause reputational or ...

I have so many amazing opportunities coming up that I don't even need to worry about spaces that don't make space for me. When you're authentic and have your own morals - you're a star in yourself - and no one - no matter who makes YOU their hobby - can sabotage that! I can't wait to share everything once it's all done! Only once they're done - so people can't invade my lane and use organisations as part of their bullying. Thank you for the life lessons! I'm doing things differently! 🙌🏻 Bullies can't break me. 😊 Sarah ❤️ ✨ xoxo #keepinggoing #grateful #blessed