Still being abused: exhausted:

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I had to block an abusive man who misunderstood my autistic meltdowns—during times when I was actually being abused—as aggression. He believes I deserve abuse. That says more about him than it ever will about me.


I honestly feel sorry for anyone who thinks abuse is ever justified—especially towards a disabled, autistic woman. Brave of him, hiding behind fake profiles.


No one deserves abuse. Ever. Period.


This man has made false public claims, twisted what he thinks he saw to match how he feels about me—rather than acknowledging the truth of who I am or what actually happened. That is not only irresponsible, it’s harmful. By doing this, he is actively supporting abusers.


It’s not my fault he was gullible enough to buy into lies and projections.


If you’re mutuals with this person, please consider unfriending them—or me. I have the right to protect myself from those who twist reality to justify bullying and abuse. If you're okay with that kind of behaviour, we are not aligned.


Bullying someone you don’t know based on things you think you know isn’t just cruel—it’s dangerous.


I know that not everyone understands my reality. But when you take that misunderstanding and weaponise it to encourage abuse? That’s beyond wrong. Sharing the address of someone who is safeguarded by police due to trauma? That’s not just cruel—that’s criminal. Yes, my address. He may want me harmed, but I’ve done nothing to deserve it. That’s on him.


There’s a reason I stay away from the toxic people in my area. I’ve had to, for my own safety.


Even if you genuinely believed I deserved abuse (which is twisted enough on its own), to actively share someone’s address to increase the risk of violence? That’s something a very broken person does.


I don’t know this man. He is wrong about everything. If he truly looked into things, he’d know that. I hope he heals, I really do—but he needs to stay out of my life, because if he keeps going like this, someone innocent is going to get seriously hurt. And by then, it’ll be too late.


Let’s hope he can live with that.


Abuse is never okay. Ever.


I will always defend myself. That’s my right. I’ve only ever defended myself.


If you can’t see that, then I wish you well—but I’m walking away.


– Sarah ❤️

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