A closed door:

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A closed door:

I can’t stand being used and then discarded when I’m no longer convenient. It’s bad enough when strangers do it — but when it’s family or relatives? Nah. I’m done.


If you choose not to be my family, I’m not chasing you. Unfriend me. Block me. I’ve spent too long putting people first and giving endless benefit of the doubt just because we share blood or we're family.


If I’m not family to you, then noted. I wish I’d realised sooner, but here we are.


What really gets me is that some of you never even tried to know me. You decided who I was based on assumptions, hearsay, or what was easiest for you. I’m exhausted from being the one who tries to keep the peace while others don’t care half as much.


So if relatives are unfriending me now, I’ll let them. 🫵🏻💯✨


I’m done shrinking, explaining, or performing for people who couldn’t be bothered to show up properly, it's not like they treated me well when they were around anyway!


That door is closed now. I already have everyone I ever needed around me, and that’s all that matters. I’m tired of hypocrisy — how easily people find reasons to judge or hate, yet never find the energy to actually know someone for who they are.


Their loss. 💋


With love,

~a proud black sheep.~

Sarah ❤️


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A small Hello Kitty snow figure sits in fresh snow, lightly dusted with frost. It has a red bow on its head and a red-and-green striped scarf around its neck. Long shadows stretch across the snow in warm sunlight. On the right side of the image, white text reads: “I NEVER NEEDED YOU ANYWAY” with the credit “@kawaiidolldecora ♡”.




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