Men still won't stop:
He wanted a reason to hate:
I genuinely thought my response was fair and reasonable. He came at me with antagonising bait and subtle harassment, I answered the question truthfully — and then suddenly he’s having a whole MANtrum about it. Then he claimed he blocked me… yet I’m still here dealing with his emotional fallout? Make it make sense. If you blocked me, why are your footprints still in my space?
And of course, once it escalated into an actual attack — which he refuses to call an attack — the grand conclusion was that I must be a narcissist. Because heaven forbid a woman defends herself or speaks clearly about her own experience.
Thank you for the “feedback,” but let’s be honest: you harassed me. You went out of your way to come into my lane, didn’t like the honesty you received, and lashed out.
But sure — my bad. 💋✨
I’m sorry the imaginary version of me you’ve built in your head doesn’t match the person I actually am. I live my life — openly. You, meanwhile, are convincing yourself of whatever narrative makes you feel justified. That’s the behaviour of someone who baits, antagonises, belittles, uses false judgement to excuse further abuse, deflects, blames, lashes out — and then calls the other person the narcissist.
But yes — obviously I’m the problem. I’m the narcissist. The one who blocked you. The one who directly stated who I am and removed myself from the conflict. Total narc energy, clearly. 🤣
Avoiding drama. Avoiding escalation. Refusing to coddle a bruised male ego. How terrible of me. 😬
#SelfDefence #RealCommunication #Facts #Abuse #Harassment #Projection #MaleEgo #Attack #WomenAreTIRED
If you want to see the rest of his full MANtrum, I have screenshots — because this isn’t the first time this stranger has come at me. He even admitted it. Like… be serious.
Who repeatedly goes after a woman to be abusive, then pretends she’s imagining it — and if she names the behaviour, they say she “can’t handle disagreement”?
No. I handle disagreement just fine.
Disrespect?
Not so much. Xx
✌🏻 Sarah xo
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A screenshot of a Facebook comment thread. The first comment is from an account with the name "Kevin Scott" asking, "Genuine question Sarah, have you ever changed your view on any subject after discussing it with others on your thread?"
Below it, a reply from an account with the name "Sarah Wingfield" says that yes, information can evolve ideas, and adds that they are tired of experiencing abuse and only being able to defend themselves physically, saying they want better rights for everyone.
Under that, the same account replies again, saying, "Guess you haven't really done much research on me or googled me though." The background is white and the screenshot is framed with a purple border.
