Disability Support needs to be Stronger in the community:

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Disability Support needs to be Stronger in the community:


Disability comes in all shapes, sizes, forms, and ages.


So why are disabled people still being mistreated—especially when they are already fighting every single day just to live and survive?


This is even more evident within our own local communities. 👈🏻👈🏻👈🏻


Too often, the moment a disabled person becomes successful in any way, support disappears and is replaced with criticism, judgement, or backlash!!


It’s getting ridiculous.


I recently shared my music online—something I create as part of my own mental health support and to help others—and I faced backlash for it. Despite being an admin, having consent to post, and checking beforehand, people still chose negativity over support.


It isn’t hard to uplift your community. Yet time and time again, people would rather criticise than encourage. What shocked me most was that one of the individuals involved had even attended a PIP protest—someone who should understand the importance of support within our community.


I’ve supported my community long before anything I’ve done has ever been monetised—and the reality is, unless you have a following in the hundreds of thousands, “monetisation” is barely anything anyway.


And yet, instead of supporting local disabled creators, people choose to tear them down.


We need to challenge this harmful and outdated mindset—that disabled people must look like they are struggling 24/7 in order to be believed, supported, or valued. 👈🏻👈🏻


Disability is not defined by constant visible suffering.


We are worthy already—even when you refuse to see it.


Hate helps no one.


Support disabled individuals and creators in your community. Uplift them. Encourage them. Stand beside them.


Because real change starts with how we treat each other. 💪🏻🔥


Thank you.


Sarah Wingfield ❤️

Independent Disability Advocate

KawaiiDollDecora.uk


#disabilityinclusion #strongertogether #disability #disabilityawareness #disabilitysupport #disabilityrights



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