I will never understand some people:

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Someone I've never spoken to decided to send this to my inbox.


We're not friends.

I don't know him.

Yet apparently my existence upset him enough to message:


"F***ing silly b*tch go die."


This isn't criticism.

It isn't debate.

It isn't accountability.


It's simply online abuse.


The irony is that people often ask why advocates speak about harassment, pile-ons, and toxic online behaviour. This is exactly why.


I don't know Adam Broughton, but he clearly knows who I am.


Anyway, screenshot taken, report submitted, block button pressed. 🚫


If my existence annoys people this much, I must be doing something right.


I won't stop actioning real life positive change and demanding accountability when needed.


Those that choose to abuse further as opposed to accountability - are just proving who they really are.


Pay attention.


Sarah Wingfield 

Actor Author Advocate 

KawaiiDollDecora.uk


#OnlineAbuse #Safeguarding #Advocacy #HelpfulNotHarmful #SarahWingfield


Alt text:

Screenshot of a Facebook Messenger conversation request from a profile named Adam Broughton. The sender is not listed as a Facebook friend. Two messages are visible: "F*cking silly bi*ch go die" and "How's that for you". The conversation appears as an unread message request.


Alt Text:

Screenshot of a public Facebook profile belonging to a person named Adam Broughton. The profile shows a profile photo of a young man and lists Birmingham, United Kingdom as his location. The bio includes the name "Reagan" followed by a blue heart emoji. The profile displays approximately 323 friends and 2.6K posts. Employment history shown includes roles as a Line Cook, an Operative at HW Martin Waste Ltd, work with SecurePro, and a Customer Service position. Sections visible include personal details, family information, work history, and recent profile activity. The screenshot was taken on a mobile device using Facebook.


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