Always speak UP against abuse:
In a world filled with abusers, I would rather whistleblow and safeguard than stay silent and allow harm to continue.
You’re not always believed.
You’re not always listened to.
Often, people only understand once it happens to them too.
That’s why abusers hide behind good deeds, reputations, and performative “helping.”
Genuine, authentic people take accountability.
They correct their behaviour.
Apologies come with changed actions.
Abusers don’t do that.
Instead, they surround themselves with people shouting about the “amazing work” they do — not to protect others, but to silence victims. Some of those people don’t even realise they’re enabling abuse. They think they’re defending someone they admire. But if someone were truly good, there wouldn’t be victims trying to hold them to account.
Period.
When this behaviour exists inside organisations, support groups, or positions of power, they are not there to help people — they are there to help themselves. Abuse is hidden behind an army. Power is misused. Connections in policing and politics are leveraged. Lies are told. Victims are targeted — especially the ones who refuse to stay quiet.
So no — victims should not “get over it.”
They didn’t ask to be abused.
They didn’t choose the trauma.
They are the ones left to heal.
We will speak.
We will address it.
We will keep going until people wake up.
Because silence only protects abusers — never survivors.
KawaiiDollDecora.uk
#NoAbuseIsOkay #Whistleblowers #Safeguarding #Accountability #SurvivorVoices
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A square pastel-kawaii advocacy quote image with a soft pink, lavender and baby-blue cloud background. At the top, large purple text in quotation marks reads “Get over it.” Beneath it, the response appears in playful pink and blue lettering: “Nah. I don’t think I will. But I can and I will try to change it.” Surrounding the text are cute but symbolic illustrations: a pink megaphone, broken metal chains, warning signs, hearts (some cracked), stars, sparkles, and small lightning bolt icons, blending sweetness with seriousness. Near the bottom centre, a winged whistle floats above clouds. Below it, bold purple text reads: “In a world of abusers — be a whistleblower.” A pink ribbon banner underneath credits “Kawaii Doll Decora” with the website “KawaiiDollDecora.uk,” followed by the hashtag “#NoAbuseIsOkay.” On the lower right stands a chibi-style girl with pink hair in twin buns, big expressive eyes, and a red dress with bows, adding a gentle, kawaii character presence to the activist message.
