Hate me:
Today I was spoken down to — simply because I’m white.
Yes. Really. My skin tone. 😵💫
It’s not the first time, and let’s be honest, it won’t be the last — which is surreal, because I genuinely thought we were past this.
For me, it’s bizarre because I have never judged anyone by the colour of their skin. That’s not who I am and not how I move in this world. I acknowledge discrimination in all its forms — but I choose helping over harming. Always. 🤘🏻
I was talking about the charities I work with and the support I give to women and girls globally — and I was told to “shut up” purely because of the body I was born in. It reminded me of being a child, watching people mock or fear what was simply different, instead of understanding that actions define character — not skin.
My great aunt had Down syndrome, and people used to speak to her like she was less. Yet she was intelligent, warm, and deeply perceptive. Difference is not inferiority. Never has been.
The woman who said this to me was a Spanish comedian — and she wasn’t just attacking me. She was tearing down other women too. Let’s call it plainly:
Racism is racism.
Discrimination is discrimination.
If it’s wrong one way, it’s wrong every way. Aren’t we grown now?
⚠️ And here’s what actually matters: ⚠️
There are women and girls being trafficked, abused, silenced, dismissed in healthcare, erased from research and erased from history — right now.
There are Black and Indian women and disabled women— women who exist at multiple intersections of marginalisation — facing systemic injustices every single day, as girls and women.
And instead of challenging the systems that harm us, some people would rather attack other women over skin tone and call that “feminism.”
It’s not.
It’s just another form of harm.
I will never participate in that.
I stand for actions over aesthetics.
I stand for listening, learning, and lifting others up
I stand for women. All women. Every background. Every identity.
So if someone needs to hate me because I’m white — that’s their burden to carry, not mine.
But I will not be silenced.
No I work STFU. 😘
And I will not stop doing the work.
That’s it. That’s the message.
🤍🌹
“Hate me — KDoll.”
For I will never HARM like you. 💯
#RealInclusion #RealChange #HateMe #CommunitySupport #Discrimination #Society
