Not Their Enemy, Just Their Reminder:
Not Their Enemy, Just Their Reminder:
Some people see genuine support as a threat because they’ve been too busy being maladaptive, nepotistic, and sabotaging others while pretending to help.
They weaponise their so-called “support” to harm, and they don’t want those they’ve pushed out of the community — their self-proclaimed elite — to have a real voice. They thrive on ostracising, silencing, and blacklisting others. I’ve lived it, so of course I get trolled and attacked for running a magazine that gives everyone a voice and refuses to leave anyone out.
Because of a false community protection notice I received, there are now two organisations and a company I can’t publish about in the magazine.
My genuine support for them was met with lies, manipulation, and abuse — and I can’t be involved with them anymore.
I still write about the reality of what happens. I prefer positive and uplifting posts, but I can’t control how others behave — I can only call it out and focus on the spaces that see me for who I am and genuinely want to help others, with no hidden agendas.
People deserve real support when they’re struggling. I can’t stand those who target the vulnerable, and I will always challenge them — even harder when they’re protected by “flying monkeys” who help them get away with harm under the guise of “charitable actions.” No charitable action ever justifies abuse. Period.
When they make me an enemy — which I don’t consent to, because the only beef I’m interested in is usually in the freezer — it just makes me fight twice as hard to improve things. Because they need improving. And more so, because someone tried to stop me from helping.
Honestly, my haters just light a fire under me, and for that, I’m thankful. 🔥
So, on the bad days — hit pause, never quit, and keep actioning positive change no matter what others think of you. It’s about what’s needed, not about who likes you. ❤️
Sarah Wingfield xoxo
Independent Disability Advocate
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