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Newton Aycliffe Street Food Festival:

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  Aycliffe Street Food Festival August 16 2024 Sarah Wingfield reporting from Aycliffe Uncensored. Let's walk through this food festival together... @KawaiiDollDecora ♡ www.magnoliaphotography.co.uk ♡ #NewtonAycliffe #Streetfood #Streetfoodfestival #foodfestival2024 #NewtonAycliffeStreetFoodFestival #kawaiidolldecora #aycliffeuncensored

Life is a lesson, daily:

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Life teaches us who to avoid and who to work with to create and action positive change. It's easy to spew empty words or be hateful, harder to acknowledge how your behaviour impacts those around you. I don't care if I'm hated or pitied (new one apparently), as long as people keep it to themselves, especially when they're not seeking to resolve anything and just want to be nasty cause they simply can. Evidence is everything and I check myself and even screenshot everything to ensure I check myself and that's all I'm responsible for. I can try and reason with people up until the point they become unreasonable, and I'm allowed to step away at that point or block for that matter. Just because you know one version of a person, even their whole lives, doesn't mean you should defend them when they've gone out of their way to be a troll or hateful for that matter and then tried to recruit you to hate on the person they targeted for NOT tolerating it or takin...

Managing people who are unmanageable:

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Managing groups is hard, trying to get adults to behave is hard, but it's never my responsibility when adults choose abuse and hate and trolling and lack of accountability over supporting and helping others. Had to post this notice today: Image reads " ⚠️Public Notice: anti social behaviour and Aycliffe Uncensored:⚠️ If I remove someone for being abusive I won't tolerate abuse or tantrums from their friends either (who admitted to being abusive and trolling themselves). I won't condone abuse or ableism EVER. ➡️Legitimately 'nice' people don't go around hating on disabilities nor do they condone abuse from their friends, they make sure their friends are held accountable for bad behaviour.⬅️ Ceased communication and blocked. I will remove and block anyone who supports abuse or uses it to harass me over how I keep my group safeguarded. I don't owe you an explanation, I try and hash things out but when I can't reason with the unreasonable then there...

Rachel Reeves, Chancellor impacting the elderly:

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Since Rachel Reeves hatched a ridiculous plan to scrap winter fuel payments I have been working with other petitioners to bring to her attention how damaging this would be for the citizens of Britain. I sent this email to Rachel via Organise; ---- Chancellor, Rachel Reeves,  British citizens matter, therefore I’m writing to you to express my concern over the current plan to scrap winter fuel payments for over 10 million pensioners in the UK.  Have you lost your mind? No? Have you lost your compassion? Maybe: Although the payments will stay for those on pension credit and other means tested benefits, this decision will harm many pensioners who are just above the threshold and prevented from receiving pension credit. The loss of between £100 and £300 will send so many pensioners into debt or force them to choose between heating and eating this winter. Our elderly and vulnerable MATTER even when you choose to ignore their needs. I am one of almost 30,000+ Organise members who hav...

Gone but never forgotten:

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A poem dedicated to all those struggling with loss right now... May this bring you some comfort at this difficult time: Sending all my love 🌹 @KawaiiDollDecora ♡ www.magnoliaphotography.co.uk ♡

What hard work I've been doing behind the scenes:

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 What people don't see me do: (Originally posted several days ago but was never published so I've published it now) For my new supporters of course 🥰 💪🏻Work for Naari Samata Charity ❤️Work for cancer charities  💪🏻Work for Age UK ❤️Run community groups 💪🏻Independent advocacy and support ❤️Directing people where they need to go  💪🏻Helping people in public when abled bodied people just ignore them (and yes I take and endure the pain to help others so there's no excuse 💪🏻) ❤️Speak up about abuse not just for myself but others 💪🏻Emails to parliament  ❤️Paperwork  💪🏻Petitions ❤️Fundraisers 💪🏻15 years of helping women with Support Pelvic Dysfunction  ❤️Speaking against trolls and nasty people  💪🏻Using my voice to raise awareness  ❤️Fighting the system  💪🏻Working and dealing with police ❤️Studying criminology degree 💪🏻Studying level 2 understanding autism  ❤️Studying child safeguarding  💪🏻Writing books ❤️Writing an ...

Hit rock bottom today:

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  TW: abuse, mental health, assault, domestic violence, PTSD and triggers: With everything I've been through as of late and all that I still need to do, I've deactivated Facebook for a little while... major PTSD trigger earlier today that spiralled and I am not happy with myself but that's trauma for ya... Flashbacks are the worst, it's like going through it all over again and you feel the pain as if it's happening all over again and that's the hardest thing, I have police involvement but called Samaritans today and I'm trying my best to work through it. Rock bottom isn't fun and everything has been feeling fruitless lately and like I'm not achieving anything and with the pressure on me with my house I haven't been able to sort studies like I need so probably taken on too much on top. Even now I feel like I've let everyone down and I didn't expect my head to get so bad mental health wise today, I am just run down, exhausted and feel aband...