People will always choose abuse over understanding:

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It's apparently wrong to want to communicate with people who only act like they care about animals and others when it gives them an opportunity to be judgemental or abusive.


I'm compassionate and kind and my message wasn't a rant but because people can't accept the facts they choose the wrong behaviour sometimes it's easier to ignore facts and reality and kindness and when their abuse is met with reason and compassion because they can't paint you as the person they wanted you to be they still take sides in things that don't actually have sides and are about a much bigger picture.


People are allowed to ask you to support mental health and choose problem solving over being a problem. You're allowed to ignore how you impact people badly but maybe don't do it in the first place if you don't want discussions and just want an EXCUSE FOR ABUSE towards people.


You can't advocate for mental health whilst assuming things and changing facts to meet false narratives to give yourself permission to be abusive.


YOU ALSO DO NOT ALLOW FOR GOOD PEOPLE TO FIX THINGS EVEN WHEN THEY WERE NOT IN THE WRONG OR HARMFUL. NO ABUSE OR DICTATION OR JUDGEMENT IS NOT OKAY. 


Like I said on April 8th post:


https://pgpandspd.blogspot.com/2025/04/april-8th.html


Good morning. As you get ready for your day please try and choose who you want to be today. A problem solver and someone kind or a problem. Those that create problems tend to find any excuse for abuse, to jump on hate bandwagons and choose negativity over kindness. You are not my kind of people and all I ask is you choose better.


Regarding a recent issue I had if people actually cared instead of fake cared why don't all if not most places have somewhere people can leave their dogs as they're their family? Or a purchasable option for staff to dogsit if people don't and won't and can't trust people to know the temperature of their vehicles? I vote for a more all inclusive pet friendly society but we're not even accessible for ALL humans at most venues because again people only care when they can use their caring as an excuse to be abusive instead of working towards being a disability friendly and dog friendly society.


Check yourselves.

Thank you.


Sarah Wingfield ❤️

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