What Cyberstalking Looks Like in 2026:

What Cyberstalking Looks Like in 2026:

Guess I must have reached #CelebrityStatus now I have my very own exclusive obsessive fan club. 😅

Apparently, I live rent-free in a lot of people's heads.

*Opens popcorn.* 🍿🤣

What have I supposedly done now?

Honestly...

I lose track.

That probably sounds ridiculous to anyone who hasn't experienced sustained online harassment, but unfortunately this isn't directed at just one person anymore.

There are multiple people who seem to spend a bizarrely unhealthy amount of time watching me, reposting or redistributing my original copyrighted work without permission, talking about me, and making me the topic of conversation, with hope they'll get attention - and they are.

If a general post makes someone feel personally called out, perhaps it's worth asking why... #cinderella #shoefits 

Here's the simple part some people keep missing...

I don't want your attention.

I don't want my name in your posts.

I don't want my name in your comments.

I don't want to be the topic of your conversations.

I've repeatedly asked to be left alone.

I've blocked people.

I've moved on.

Yet somehow my name continues to appear in their spaces, without consent, and without reasonable justification.

Comments almost daily,

Posts, some over 20 posts about me.

Conversations, everywhere.

For people who claim they dislike me, they certainly spend an extraordinary amount of time thinking and talking about me and stalking my pages for content to hate on.

Everyone has the right to a platform

I'm allowed a voice.

I'm allowed to advocate.

I'm allowed to educate.

I'm allowed to create.

I'm allowed to share my own experiences.

The difference is that I use my platform to discuss issues I care about, my advocacy, my work, and my own life.

I don't build my online presence around somebody else's name. I don't need that kind of popularity.

I know my worth.

I don't need to attack another person to create engagement and you can't intimidate me into silence 🤐 whilst you accuse me of doing that exact thing by asking you to leave me alone.

🌟 When the comments became sexual:

Recently, some of the comments have become sexual.

Honestly?

They're gross.

They're bizarre.

They're completely unwanted.

If you genuinely dislike someone, why publicly make jokes about dating them or discuss them in a sexual way?

It isn't funny.

It isn't wanted.

It's inappropriate.

Online sexual harassment.

It's exactly the sort of behaviour I've repeatedly asked to stop.

🌟 The irony:

Perhaps the strangest part is being labelled an "attention seeker" by people who repeatedly give me attention I've never wanted.

If my name appears on someone else's profile more often than it appears on mine, perhaps the obsession isn't coming from me.

🌟 Boundaries are not unreasonable:

I don't want my name dragged into other people's drama.

That isn't an unreasonable request.

I've also seen comments mocking the police and suggesting that nothing will happen, as though that somehow excuses repeatedly bringing my name into conversations after I've asked to be left alone.

It doesn't.

🌟 The internet in 2026 can be a very strange place:

Repeating allegations doesn't make them facts.

I've also seen people repeatedly refer to an alleged harassment notice.

It was not an official legal finding.

I completely dispute those allegations and have consistently maintained they are false.

I believe accountability matters.

I also understand that speaking up against organisations and asking for accountability isn't always popular.

Advocacy often attracts criticism.

That still doesn't justify repeatedly targeting someone who has clearly asked to be left alone.

Repeating disputed allegations over and over again doesn't magically transform them into facts.

🌟 My work belongs to me:

And as such people need written permission to share or redistribute my content, especially my website content which is copyright.

All of:

My blogs.

My articles.

My graphics.

My photographs.

My videos.

My social media posts.

They're my original creative work and are protected by copyright laws.

Reproducing or redistributing my original work without permission doesn't suddenly make it yours.

If you want content...

Create your own, stop using my name to gain popularity and stop using pointless hate to target women that simply disagree with you.

🌟 What I see happening:

After watching this happen repeatedly, the pattern feels painfully familiar.

• Humiliation through insults and sexual jokes.

• Trying to entertain an audience at someone else's expense.

• Dehumanising a person instead of discussing facts.

• Repeatedly making someone the topic of conversation after they've asked to be left alone.

• Reproducing original work while attaching new narratives to it.

• Trying to provoke a reaction to keep the cycle going.

• Specifically targeting a blogger knowing they write about their experiences and so you want some of that attention and platform so you obsess over them.

None of that changes who I am.

None of that changes what I stand for.

None of that changes the work I do.

The solution really is simple

If you genuinely dislike someone...

Stop watching them.

Stop talking about them.

Stop making them your content.

Stop reproducing or redistributing their original work without permission.

Stop using their name for engagement.

Move on.

I've been trying to do exactly that for quite some time.

I'm not your entertainment.

I'm not your content.

I'm not your business.

I'm simply someone who has repeatedly asked to be left alone.

The ball has been in your court for a very long time, but you keep bouncing it against MY lanes hoping I'll bite - I don't want to know you. No biting here just blocking but I do have teeth. *Wink*

Leave my name in peace and out of your lanes and get on with your own lives.

It really is that simple.

Sarah Wingfield ❤️

Actor • Author • Advocate

KawaiiDollDecora.uk

#Cyberstalking #OnlineHarassment #Boundaries #SpeakUp #TruthMatters #Accountability #Copyright #OriginalContent #DisabilityAdvocate #SarahWingfield #KawaiiDollDecora

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